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How to Stop Griping and Complaining About Your Life
Sometimes I'm amazed at how many people bemoan their lot in life and think that the only reason other people do well is because they "get the breaks" or have some sort of unfair advantage. Actually, I'm not really that surprised since most people are brainwashed by our government schools and the liberal, "welfare-entitlement" media. Regardless of how you arrived at this point, it doesn't really matter. Here you are. The only thing that does matter is whether you will accept responsibility and take action to make a change. Plus, it doesn't matter how you FEEL. Feelings follow your choices. FEELINGS FOLLOW YOUR CHOICES. Think of a train. Picture a caboose (your feelings) at the end of a train (your will and mind). When that train engine (your ability to choose and make decisions) changes direction, the caboose eventually follows. The time frame for change may depend on how long your train is as to how much growing you need to do or how far feelings need to come along. It might take a little while to see that caboose reach that turn that the engine has already made, but it will eventually get there. Feelings always follow choice. If you want the right feelings, make the right choices. We are a society who lets feelings RULE... and that is a recipe for chaos and confusion. Let your mind and will rule your choices in life, and the good feelings will follow EVERY TIME. How do you know what choice to make? Most of the time, it is the obvious one. However, the obvious one may be the hardest one to do. That is when people search for some ridiculously complicated option instead of doing what is obvious. Need more money? Quit wasting what you have and start imitating those who are wealthy (and spiritually balanced). Do you need to lose weight? Quit feeding your face and get some exercise. Need to be a more giving husband or wife? Begin by DOING things that good spouses do, regardless of how you actually feel. Need to be more productive? Stop wasting time. Don't turn on the TV. We too often want to avoid the obvious "cure" and look for something that takes the blame off us. Then, we can whine and complain that we got a bad break in life. Like-minded people will join you in a good pity-party, while disciplined responsible people might muster up a "Gee, that stinks" but are really thinking "Quit bellyaching and do something about it". Are you someone who is quick to whine and complain about your life? Are you busy with your pity-parties about your work, marriage, or finances? Do you continually think of the day when your life will finally be what you want it to be? Zip it. Can it. Shut your pie hole. Dry it up. Suck it up. Quit whining. Stop complaining. Cease the pity party. Want to be more spiritual? The Bible says to "imitate Christ". Want to be a better parent or spouse? Find someone who is and imitate him. Want to have financial freedom? Find someone who does, for the right reasons, and imitate that person. It is imperative to take action. Make a choice. Take responsibility for your life. Look for someone who has successfully arrived at the destination you're targeting and imitate them. G. Brent Riggs, author of "Life Without Debt", "Serious Faith" and "Desperation Station" has over 20 years experience as an business owner, teacher, personal growth coach and mentor. You can contact him from his main website: http://www.gbrentriggs.com
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